Holy cow parenting is just plan hard, yet so many different
rewards. That cute little smile you get when you hand them a special treat,
that hug that was unexpected, those adorable giggles you hear when you tickle
their tummies. Yet I have felt I have been so consumed with just the necessities of life and then my health. I won’t go into many details, but the migraines are
not being very helpful in my job as a mom.
So something had to change. I have to be a loving caring
mom. When I include trying to teach 4 children academics, deal with behaviors
several times during the teaching process, keep up with household chores, insurance
calls, therapy visits, migraines, and much more I could not breath, let alone be a caring mom. I am NOT
"Supermom" and I am really tired of people saying, “Wow I could not do that. I
just think what you are doing for these kids is so amazing.” Ugh…if they only
knew that my super cape flew out the carpool window years ago. I am tired and
worn out. My emotional, physical and mental tank has been sucking on fumes.
Change has happened. We enrolled our 3rd and 1st
graders into public school. *sigh* Hard decision, yet a peace about it. Yes all
the paperwork that comes with that was an added stress, but it is done.
Adjusting to the new schedule has been hard, but do-able.
It has been 2 weeks and I am just now starting to feel less
stress. I have more time to teach and love on my older girls. I joined a
fitness place and I am starting to work-out more. The kids are loving it and
they seem to have gotten great teachers. In fact the older girls are LOVING it too. They get more time with me and the quiet. Yes the "I can think" quiet in the mornings are astounding!
Now I feel like I can enjoy and even notices those rewards
of being a mom. You know; those cute smiles and giggles, the “thanks mom”, “love
you mom”, the boo-boos that only I can heal. Yes, I am blessed. I took the advice
of a great person, “You need to put your oxygen mask on before you can put one
onto your kids.” Thanks!